Friday, October 24, 2008

It's in the mail

I am attaching another inspiring message from my pastor, Rev Thomas L Murray. I am working on building patience because I know I am waaaayy too influenced by our "fast food" society: I want what I want when and where I want it!!

But I'm a believer, and I have got to remember that God is in control and that His promises are sure. I've asked for movement within my family and I am assured that He will answer my prayers. It's in the mail, y'all . . . I just need to wait.

This message was right on time for me. I hope it blesses you!

"IT'S IN THE MAIL"
Recently I spoke with a friend of mine about a package that he had promised to send and that I had not yet received. He assured me that he had sent it and that I should expect to receive it any day, and he went on to say, "it's in the mail". Just the thought of knowing that it had indeed been sent and that it was in the mail relieved me from the anticipation that comes with waiting . All too often in life, as believers we wait for our prayers to be answered, our situations to get better, the economy to improve, and God's promises to be made manifest in our lives -- there is a sense of expectation that God is going to do something about the situation that we find ourselves in. Many times when we expect something in the natural we have faith that it will soon come, ie. that income tax refund check, the stimulus payment, the rebate check, the closing papers...and we wait with a sense of urgency, looking through the mail everyday, waiting on the mail person to arrive. And once the mail finally gets there, we are over-joyed. Isaiah 40: 31, gives us a wonderful promise as believers and lets us know that those who truly rely upon God and commit themselves to His guidance, shall find that God will not fail them. As you go into this day, move forward with a spirit of expectation knowing that what you have entrusted into the hands of God will not go unnoticed and be prepared to celebrate and give God praise once you get what you have been waiting for.
Be blessed,
Pastor Thomas L. Murray
ptlm@aol.com

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Brillante Weblog Award


I have been honored with the Brillante Award by my blog friend The True Urban Queen!! Thanks Sharon!! I started this blog as sort of a public diary of sorts, a way for me to process the good and the bad that comes through my life and mind. I am surprised and humbled to find that people read what I write and at times are touched by my words. This is truly a God-given, unexpected bonus for me.

So, thanks again Sharon. Thanks to each of my fellow bloggers who've stopped by or have allowed me to come by their place. Thanks to those of you who comment, whether in agreement or not, and even the lurkers; thanks!

The rules are as follow:

1. The winner can put the logo on his/her blog.

2. The winner must link to the person from whom they received their award.

3. The winner must nominate at least 7 other blogs for the award.

4. The winner must place links to those blogs on their own blog.

5. The winner must leave a message on the blogs of the people they’ve nominated.

According to the rules , I am supposed to present this award to 7 other bloggers. Unfortunately (or fortunately), my blog circle is relatively small. The ones I considered first have already been awarded. They are truly well deserved and if you get a chance, check out MsKnowItAll, The HappyGoLuckyBachelor, and TheTrueUrbanQueen.

I would also like to bestow this award on the following:

Homeland Colors: insightful political commentary

Sitting On the Big Porch: gifted prose and fiction writer

BAPLiving: Ms. Leeke has developed an AMAZING social networking site for African-American professional women

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Speak to my heart

I needed a little encouragement today. I'm meeting with my school board this week to discuss my child's school placement. I'm feeling discouraged by the lack of cooperation and compassion and I hate each day leaving my son in the care of non-caring folk. I'm praying for peace so that I can be the best advocate as possible for my son.

Anyway, Marvin Sap's version of Donnie McClurkin's classic was just what I needed today. May it bless you also!


We've come a long way . . .



. . . and the sky is the limit on how much further we could go. . .

VOTE NOVEMBER 4th 2008

Monday, October 20, 2008

Great News!

I have great news from this weekend. My son joined our church, made his first confession of faith and is now a candidate for baptism!!!

All praises to God!

He surprised me too. We have been talking about baptism but he kept saying he was not ready and so, we had not spoken of it in a couple weeks. Imagine my surprise when members of the children's church came over to stand before the adult congregation and MY SON was among the group. I think everybody in the building heard my holla!!!

In other news, we have decided to loc his hair!! I had (still have) some reservations, mostly due possible peer pressure and how he will handle being outside of the norm at school. He's only 7 after all.

But here's our dilemma: he doesn't want to wear it cut low (neither do I); but when it gets this length, we struggle more with the brush and comb, which usually leads to arguments in the morning (neither of us likes this). He has made references about other people he knows who are loc'd and he likes the look of it. My hair is in twists 80% of the time and I notice he likes to play in my hair too. Anyway, we were snuggling Saturday night while watching a movie and I started playing in his hair. Before I knew it, the first row was twisted and we both liked what we saw. He wanted to do the whole head, and I talked him out of it.

We spent Sunday afternoon with family and I finally gave in to the pressure; his, my sister's and nieces/nephew.

So, after some trial and error, I finally decided to start his locs with braids. Now here comes the challenge. I need research and advice now on how to maintain them, especially after the loc'ing process begins. If anyone has any suggestions or knowledge to pass on, I'll gladly receive it.

So, here's my proud boy!




Saturday, October 18, 2008

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by Afua Cooper

when flesh and flesh
meet
nothing can stop
their union
when heart and heart
meet
nothing can stop the
passion
when soul and soul
kiss
who can stop the
love?

Friday, October 17, 2008